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4 for Now
(Long Edition: About a 6 minute read)
If you need a refresher on privilege before getting into this, check out How Privileged Are We?
I admit, Iâm one of those privileged white folks who, until last year, barely even paid attention to politics, let alone cared enough to say or do something about it. I bought into the power-stripping rhetoric that one person canât change anything, that you had to vote to be a good citizen, and that settling for the âlesser of two evilsâ was the pinnacle of patriotism. 2020 busted the dam holding back my give-a-damn. And things have only gotten worse.
Many people are saying theyâre surprised by what happened at the Capitol Building. I wonât shame anyone for their surprise. The surprise is a symptom of something larger: they havenât been paying attention (or theyâre listening to propaganda rather than fact, but thatâs a whole other can of worms).
The problem with not paying attention to politics (for whatever reason) is that youâre essentially telling the people in your life, âThis doesnât affect me and I donât care how it affects you.â
A lot of folksâBlack, Brown, Indigenous, disabled, LGBTQIA2S+, and moreâdonât have the option of ignoring or not caring. For many people, how politics plays out is a life or death situation. If youâre more concerned with avoiding unpleasant conversations than you are about someone losing their autonomy or their life, I urge to you examine why that is.
As a white person whose disabilities are accepted (I wear glasses) or hidden (like my depression), Iâve faced relatively little risk by letting politics play out. What Iâve realized and accepted is that, as Desmond Tutu has said, âIf you are neutral in situations of injustice, you have chosen the side of the oppressor.â
Risk Can Lead to Reward
It may feel risky positioning yourself on issues that may not seem to affect you directly, like gun control, drug price regulations, and immigration. But as Delaney Halloran alludes in The Spectrum, anyone could lose a family member in a shooting, you may have friends who would die if they couldnât afford their medication, and do I need to remind you about the kids in cages? You donât need to be related to a child to be heartbroken theyâre being treated this way. (Feel free to Google âadverse childhood experiencesâ to see how it affects them growing up.)
You donât have to get into political conversations if youâre not comfortable with that, but to quote Meaghan Stout in her opinion piece for Doane Line, âBeing informed is the only way to protect the people around you and you should strive to do so even if it will have little impact on you.â
Allies, Accomplices, Decent Human Beings âŠ
Whatever term you prefer, underprivileged folks need more of them. More people pressuring our supposed representatives means more power to create change. (Remember, weâre up against rich corporations. We need to be on board.)
Plus, underprivileged folks and their accomplices are fighting for things that benefit us all. You donât have to agree with someone on everything to help them fight for one thing you both agree on.
Is it stressful? Yes. Is it exhausting? Yes. But to give up because itâs hard is a privilege and just plain cruel. Black folks canât just stop being Black because itâs dangerous to be Black in the United States. Paraplegic folks arenât going to just get up and walk because a place isnât wheelchair accessible. And theyâve been persisting for decades. Centuries.
Not only is sitting out a privilege, it further harms the folks weâre giving up on. Dana Brownlee writes “Many civil rights commentators argue that the broader tragedy … is the reminder that the Amy Coopers of the world arenât unicorns. Theyâre around us everywhere â our doctors, judges, politicians, teachers, little league coaches, workplace colleagues, and bosses. So while this time of unrest will certainly pass, racial injustices will remain.”
White, cishet, abled folks have an enormous amount of privilege in this country.
Most of us havenât asked for it or even want it. But none of us should squander it or worse, use it to advance the oppression of folks with less or no privilege.
If youâre still convinced that not being political is merely a personal choice and not a privilege, please look at why you feel that way. Examine what access you have that not everyone has (and this goes way beyond race, gender, and religion).
You donât have to become the next viral pundit, but taking a stance and defending your beliefs is one of the few original principles of the U.S. I endorse. (Caveat: I may endorse certain principles, but I donât endorse the stances or actions many of the âfounding fathersâ took, in case that wasnât clear.)
And remember, privilege isnât your fault, but itâs your responsibility to use it justly.
4 for Later
- Your Privilege is Showing by Delaney Halloran (8-minute read)
- Opinion: The necessity of choosing sides, not neutrality by Meaghan Stout [This page no longer exists. Sorry.]
- Dear White People: Here Are 10 Actions You Can Take To Promote Racial Justice In The Workplace by Dana Brownlee (15-minute read)
- 7 Undeniable Reasons Why Claiming Youâre âNot Politicalâ Makes No Sense by Jon Greenberg (12-minute read). Includes several resource links at the end.
- Bonus: Performative Allyship is Deadly by Holiday Phillips (7-min read). There’s a danger of stopping at *just* speaking up. (My apologies if you’ve hit your three free Medium reads this month. There’s an image slideshow version on her Instagram.)